When it comes to dating & relationships, we all have different experiences and opinions. We would like to share some of ours and hope you find them interesting.

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By Alpa Saujani
(Managing Director of Tantric Club)


SINGLE? ARE YOU REALLY PUTTING YOURSELF OUT THERE?

For some singles, the intention and desire to meet someone is often there. However, the action required to fulfil this aspiration is frequently lacking or superficial. Logically, we know that in life if we want something, then we have to be proactive. So what stops single people from really putting themselves out there? more

NOT GETTING TO A SECOND DATE?

Despite your best efforts, second dates are becoming a rarity. So what’s going on? And more importantly, can you do anything about it? more

THE UNTAPPED SOURCE FOR SINGLES SEEKING A PARTNER

Friendship is popularly cited as the key to successful relationships & marriages. So this got me thinking, perhaps there’s an untapped source being overlooked by many single people? more

ARE YOU DATING & GAME PLAYING?

Whilst honesty is a trait highly sought by both men and women seeking their life partner, the irony is that during the dating process, it’s also the trait that many struggle to display. Yes, I’m referring to game playing in the dating world. more

DATING: ARE YOU PUNCHING ABOVE YOUR WEIGHT?

When it comes to dating, are you trying to punch above your weight? What happens when you consistently do not get the results that you desire? Is it time to put the ego aside and reassess your game plan? more

ASIAN DATING: HAVE WE BECOME SPOILT WITH TOO MANY CHOICES?

Is too much choice a bad thing? From arranged marriages, where potential partner choices were limited to a handful, to a booming dating industry where potential partner choices can be in there hundreds. Have we gone from one extreme to another when it comes to finding a life partner? more

VALENTINES - LOVE IT OR LOATH IT?

Valentine's Day, love it or loath it, it comes around every year. Whilst it may seem great when you have someone special to share it with but what about when you are single? What does it mean to you? We decided to ask some Tantric Club members for their opinions. more

DATING & REJECTION - HOW CLEAR IS YOUR CONSCIENCE?

If you’re in the dating game, there’s a good chance that at some point you are going to be faced with rejection – either as someone doing the rejection, or being rejected. But often the angst is not caused by the other person no longer wishing to continue dating but by the way in which they communicate this, or not. more

WEDDING RINGS - WHEN DID THEY GO IN & OUT OF FASHION?

Once upon time when you spotted a stranger that you were attracted to, one of the first things that most people would do is check for a wedding band... more

I AM STILL SINGLE BUT...

Well yes I am still single, but I think the problem is that there are no decent partners left out there for me. I have tried some online dating but I have not really met anyone. more

WHERE IS THE GRASS GREENER: SINGLEDOM OR MARRIAGEDOM?

As a singleton in search of a partner you may well believe that the grass is greener on the other side. In many cases it is - marriage and relationships can be wonderful things that contribute so much to our lives. However, simply having a relationship won't guarantee anything. more

WOULD YOU DATE A MAN WHO WANTS TO LIVE WITH HIS PARENTS?

With a growing number of professional single Asian women fleeing the nest and living independently, many are not willing to entertain the prospect of moving in with a partner’s parents. more

WHAT MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND – MONEY OR LOVE?

Traditionally, men have been breadwinners and women homemakers. But in a day & age where both men and women are in high profile jobs, earning accordingly, does it make a difference who is earning more money? more

UNCERTAINTY: THE BIGGEST RELATIONSHIP KILLER?

In the current economic climate, where many people are living in uncertainty regarding their job security, is it really too much to ask, to not bring this into our personal relationships? more

THE PHONE CALL: WHY DIDN'T IT COME?

It’s Saturday night, you’re out with a few friends and unexpectedly you meet a handsome stranger. You end up spending most of the evening flirting, drinking, laughing, talking & dancing... more

BY BEHAVING SHEEPISH WHEN IT COMES TO USING DATING SERVICES, ARE WE MAKING A BIG DEAL OUT OF NOTHING?

Let’s be honest, we all harbour romantic notions of meeting the person of our dreams serendipitously. But the harsh reality is that whilst juggling successful & demanding careers, busy lifestyles... more

IN AN IMPERFECT WORLD, WHY ARE SO MANY PEOPLE SEARCHING FOR THE PERFECT PARTNER?

Like many others, you’re still single. You feel like you’ve been waiting for the right person before you happily join the world of marriagedom. Along comes someone who ticks many of your boxes but... more

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